Not long ago, I was under the impression that alternative lifestyle
was defined by hairstyle and the sag of ones pants, that
maybe a persons strut signified something. But now, I realize
that is all a crock of shit . . .
Sometimes I look at the others. The single expats here, living
the wild single-guy lifestyles we westerners imagine so unique,
edgy, cool. The lifestyles filled with booze and broads and late-night
drunken motor-scooter adventures in our exclusive Korean-Westerner
micro-culture here in Pusan. Then I wonder if my lot in Pusan
is rather dull. I am not one, as much as I have tried at times,
to enjoy the Gonzo, too-cool lifestyle. I am married, with two
kids and live with my mother-in-law. I work a hellish schedule,
hoping one day to afford specific economic opportunities for my
wife and boys, and of course for me. It is dull. I get sick of
the brats and mothers, and college class-skippers and baby crying,
day in and day out, all of this seemingly never ceasing its monotonous
cycle.
But occasionally I slow down enough to really look around. I
sit on the floor next to my mother-in-law and we are nibbling
Korean pickled pigs feet before bed. I do live with my mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law is a dong-dong-jue bootlegger for neighborhood
oldies. She makes it in the kitchen with rice, molasses, flat
loafs of barley and packages of yeast. She checks her potion by
holding a flame over the crock, watching how it burns. It is ready
when, if the cap is on too tight, the wine bottle bursts from
the pressure of excessive fermentation. I look into the unheated,
brown honey-pot of rice wine. The dong-dong jue potion is in motion,
fermenting, churning as if the crock were simmering on a low heat.
Above the humid and sweet-smelling crock of liquor, swarms of
tiny drunken fruit flies blissfully dance about.
Every morning at ten oclock the house is rocking with elderly
drunkjunkies cheering on my son, who is probably center
stage, dancing on the table amongst the butts and ashes, pork
ribs and fish bones, and various liquors of the Korean sorts.
Holding a spoon in his hand for an impromptu microphone, he blurts
out his new versions of mommy-daddy trot music and wiggles his
butt as the drunken old women clap, howling in hysterics. My neighbors
get drunk two to three times a day after retirement, and seem
happier for it aside from racking coughs and occasional rheumatic
attacks. And of course there are those neighbors who should never
touch alcohol. One neighbor binges once a week. He is nice until
the dong-dong-jue takes hold, then he is a sleepless, quarrelsome
vandal for three days and forces all the neighbors to kick his
ass or chase him out with a broom. Even my young son is allowed
to hiss at thi! s local wino. In a few days the man sobers up,
disappearing for a week, preparing for his next humiliating episode.
Our house sits upon the top of a tiny jungle hill teeming with
wildlife. Weasels fight feral cats and brown rats for garbage
at three in the morning. Large, hairy spiders nest next to our
beds in webs, basically refurbished homes created from last years
remaining webs. When I kill them there are twice as many tomorrow.
So I leave them nest. On summer evenings, when all the neighbors
sit outside drinking and barbecuing, perched upon homemade tables,
avoiding the musty heat of their cramped little jue-tek houses,
children, furtive and fearful, peak into our dusty old courtyard.
It is a maze kimchi pots, ramyun boxes and massive spider webs
within which roost goblin-black spiders big enough to gobble up
a large roach. Occasionally in our bedroom, a seemingly arms-length
centipede treads up above us. We hear his feet-steps softly click
upon the wallpaper. The wife uses a hammer to kill him. Sh! e
shows me its fangs before the bug disappears into a broth for
dinners stamina side dish.
Down the street is a gang of neighborhood thug dogs. Not the
American gun-totin thug dawgs, but a real pack of half-wild
heel nippers. There is even one burly little miniature Doberman.
But he is not the top shit-dog. The top shit-dog could care less
about tough looks, papers and lineage registry. The top shit-dog
is a young pup whose mom is in heat a lot. They all flock around
this bitchs house, wiry, wilin and free, while the
truly feral dingo-like Jin Do dogs remain chained up and pacing
in the courtyards of my neighborhood. One neighbor has a tiger-striped
Jin Do dog that looks part wolf. We keep our fair distance, him
and I.
In the morning on a cool spring day with a warm summer breeze,
my wife kisses me goodbye, ties my oldest kid to my back and I
step onto the side of our little mountain. The hills are terraced,
blooming with kale and cabbage and soybeans sprouting and a small
park sits on top. If I squint and avoid gazing too far into the
smog; if I suck in deeply the aromas of wet and pungent vegetation
after a light rain, it seems I have found a tiny piece of Tibet
or Nepal right here amongst the whirling racket of industrial
Pusan. I have no hangover and the boy on my back is singing a
self-made family love song. Finally, I clearly recall what life
as a young bachelor really was, at least for me. Desperately,
drunkenly crawling from pub to pub with loneliness and frustrated
yearning churning within and without my self, a churning not un-similar
to the churning of my moms freshly brewed dong-dong jue
potion. Fi! nally, I realize that dong-dong jue churning, bubbling
and brewing beside me fits so much better inside me.
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